Dating nowadays!

I mean dating nowadays started to feel like chess games. So much tactics and mind games which were setup by the new pick up community. I mean why would you play some games or learn texting tactics and strategies to make someone like you and wanna see you or go on a date with you? Why would you date someone and when you just feel like the sparkles are fading, you choose to look for ways to manipulate his/her feelings to get them back on track? Doesn't it make no fucking sense? Doesn't it dismiss full honesty between you? Do you think that, that person is attracted to who you really are? Hell no. In fact you create a complex vision on relationships and attraction. Like instead of keeping it natural, you start calculating your words and actions before doing a thing which adds way more anxiety and awkwardness and during the relationship, you just get the habit of over analyzing things which leads to miserable experiences.

Let's keep attraction a human thing fellas. Let's keep our relationships away from tactical actions and sayings. Let's be more real and honest. Cause it's the only way you'll meet the one, and have that forever thing.